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5 Business Principles You Only Learn Through Experience

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Any time you look at one of your idols:

  • Gary Vaynerchuk
  • Tony Robbins
  • Warren Buffet
  • Elon Musk
  • Eric Thomas
  • Mark Cuban
  • Tai Lopez, etc

…you can easily see the stoic, mature business minds they’ve acquired after years of failure.

You can just feel it. You can see it in their eyes.

It’s like watching the ending scene of a war movie when the warrior is standing there victorious after the most excruciating battle of their existence.

Why?

There are certain lessons a book can’t teach you, lessons you don’t learn in college and lessons you don’t gain my attending a webinar or downloading a course.

I’ve written thousands of pieces of content at this point in my career. If you’re reading this, it’s likely that you’ve read several pieces of my content before.

Out of all of those pieces, however, this one is likely the most important piece.

These are lessons that I’ve learned only through failure and experience. Let me know if you’ve learned some of the same lessons or if you can relate.

1) Use Thresholds to Make Better Decisions

As many of you know, one of the statements I hate the most in entrepreneurship is “if this works, we’d be willing to spend a lot more on this.”

It’s such an immature and naive statement that all of us have let slip out of our mouth at some point.

Obviously if something works, you’re likely to dump more resources into what is working. But, if it were that easy, EVERYONE would do it.

What I encourage you to do in lieu of making those assumptions/decisions, is to set thresholds on all of your marketing and business efforts. Contingencies that allow you to make calculated decisions when X happens.

I thrive on thresholds because it sets clear expectations in my own head and the heads of those associated with any given project or business endeavor. Right? And to take it further, I usually put ranges on those thresholds for conservative and aggressive.

For example: In an advertising campaign I may say something like “once we conservatively achieve a 2.5% CTR and a 1.25% conversion rate, we will do X. But if we aggressively hit a 5% CTR and a 3% conversion rate, we will do Y.” It’s simple and it’s smart.

I do the same thing with hiring, with business development, networking, strategic planning, and all elements of marketing [content marketing, email marketing, social media marketing, etc.] I urge you to adopt this approach to decision making.

2) Don’t Get Busy, Focus on What’s Important

I am stunned with the amount of entrepreneurs and SMB owners who have the mental complex of “we just have so much going on right now.”

…at all times.

Yet, they aren’t hitting the goals they want to be hitting.

We get it. You run a business.

You’re busy—but logic will show you that on one hand you are SUPER busy (marketing, advertising, networking, hiring, etc.) and on the other hand, you aren’t hitting your goals and objectives.

So, either you suck at the things you are doing, or you are filling your schedule with things that don’t matter.

Recently, I told The Modern Marketer community that “things can feel important without actually being important.” When you are sitting down for that meeting, it feels really important. In hindsight, it was probably the biggest waste of your time that day.

That’s why I can help a client launch a new brand and within 90-120 days, they are outselling brands in the same niche who have been around for years. Because in 120 days, we focused on what was important for the bottom line and growth of the business.

And the funny thing about focusing on what’s important, is that all of a sudden it gives you the breathing room to test things out and focus on other initiatives as well. WHOA! What a concept!

Challange: I encourage you to cut 5 things out of your schedule this week and fill them with 1 thing that is very important. Watch what happens.

3) Get desperate and stay desperate in marketing and business. ‘Good enough isn’t the vision.’

We just aren’t DESPERATE enough for the things we think and say we want in life and business.

There are two principles that I follow to keep my mind and heart desperate in business:

1) You are already in pain so you might as well gain something from it. A bad business move, an unsuccessful campaign, an unfortunate life situation, and so on. Those are all painful things. Getting stagnant or not pursuing something greater than your current situation, however, is giving into your pain instead of gaining something from it.

2) If you are already here, you can always go farther. This is something that I tell people who think they have made it already and start to get comfortable. Like really? You are 25-40 years old and have a decently successful business and you think that was it? That’s the difference between a successful business owner and Bill Gates. He didn’t stop at 1 million (or whatever you think your number is.) He didn’t stop at 5 employees and hitting cashflow positive. He knew if he was already where he was, he could go farther.

So, get desperate.

Realize that even your vision is greater than you. Don’t get selfish about your vision. If your vision only includes you getting a Ferrari, Jet Skis and 2 homes, then that’s not truly a vision. That’s a tunnel that leads to an unfulfilled life.

Business isn’t so we can hit numbers and go home. It’s so we can impact the lives of others and leave a legacy of change, growth, peace and hope.

Get DESPERATE.

4) Treat Business Like a Marriage. This is a covenant there is no Plan B.

The longer I simultaneously grow a business while being married, the more I apply the laws of marriage to my business. From communication, to building each other up, to our covenant, to the different seasons of the relationship and beyond.

99.9% of it applies to business as a principle.

Everywhere you see businesses declining, failing, owners and execs falling out of love with the business, trying to start new things, waiting on that next strategy to save their business and all other attributes of the average SMB owner.

But it happens a lot in business and marketing.

This is a covenant. There is no plan B. You can’t hit a certain revenue mark and then hide behind your brand.

You can’t have a few failed marketing campaigns and quit. You can’t keep to yourself and not trust others to do their job correctly. There are so many analogies I could make between a marriage and a business.

Your business is your second spouse (well, first spouse for those of you who aren’t married yet) and you need relentlessly pursuit what’s best for the relationship between you and your business.

Always evaluating.

Always refining.

Always getting better.

5) Act Like a Human. Nothing is more nurturing than a conversation.

I have so many relationships that could have easily been missed if I would have just fired off an email, sent a social message, or ignored someone all together. They are good relationships though because I picked up that phone, or I went out for that coffee.

They are good relationships because there is nothing more nurturing than a conversation.

Be tactical with with your relationships:

  • If you have an ecommerce shop, call 5 customers a day for the next week and just watch what happens after just one week.
  • If you are a technology company, get your team together and call the last 50-100 people that downloaded your app and thank them and tell them about new things you are coming out with.
  • If you are a manufacturer, invite your customers/distributors to a “roundtable” or “mastermind” where you show the process of what is happening and get their input first hand of how to make the product/process/experience better.
  • If you are a service based business, pick one customer per quarter and give them a free FULL service. For example, if you sell home decor, pick one customer per month and re-do their entire living room with 10 of your products. Yea, it’s an investment, but document it and watch what happens.

You could be creating relationships, collecting reviews, getting new product/service ideas, refining your business, getting referrals, and so much more.

If you just had a conversation.

Stop telling Hubspot, Marketo, Infusionsoft, Salesforce or whatever CRM that you use how to interact and automate your relationships. There is a time and place for everything, and sometimes you have to initiate the nurturing without software.

As Richard Branson Says, “Screw business as usual.”

I encourage you to take calculated risks. Nothing great comes from staying comfortable.

Take a chance on that new hire. Take a chance that Adwords or Facebook PPC campaign. Take a chance on inbound marketing. Take a chance on that new product line. Take a chance by opening that new location.

The key is calculating the risk.

It’s going to be a risk any way you look at it. That’s not the point. The point is to calculate it, discover the way it would actually work and execute. How do you know what the limit of your growth is if you don’t push the limit?

Nine times out of ten, the greatest risk factor in every situation is actually our execution and consistency. There is a HUGE risk that we won’t end up following through, we will lose steam or we will give 80% instead of 120%. Don’t get it twisted.

Everything around you. Everything you see, was built by someone no smarter than you and I (paraphrasing Steve Jobs) and if you can understand that your effort is 80% of the risk… then you’d probably take those risks to build something great too.

So today, execute on that item you’ve shoved on the back burner for weeks and months. Because of the risk. Fear it and do it anyways.

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Company Culture Isn’t Just an HR Issue: Why Marketers Should Care

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If you’re following the news, and frankly even if you’re not, you’re probably aware of a few brand crisis situations happening around us.

To name a few, there’s Wells Fargo, a well-known and trusted financial institution attempting to recover from a fraudulent account scandal; there’s United Airline’s trying to fight it’s way back from a violent removal of passengers; and Uber, one of the largest tech disrupters, juggling numerous legal allegations and PR nightmares.

So what do a financial institution, a global airline and a ride-hailing tech service all have in common? A toxic corporate culture. That’s no joke.

Years ago, when I was just starting out in my career, I worked for a marketing/sales company called Focus Marketing & Associates. We would go door-to-door selling coupon cards to local businesses. Sort of like selling a Groupon face-to-face, before Groupon was a thing.  

Anyway, door-to-door solicitation is not an easy job. I’d have doors slammed in my face or people questioning my ability to read (as I pretended I didn’t see that “no solicitation” sign on the door).  

It’s not like the money was so great either; I’d get about $1 for every coupon card I sold, and most of the time, I’d buy them from myself to save the heartache. Still, I stayed with them for two years.

Why? Simple. I felt like I was a part of something.  

Though the job itself was daunting (to say the least), my supervisors and colleagues were like family. We’d spend time together outside of work: picnics, movie nights and karaoke.  

Whenever the stress of the job would get to me, my team leader, Peter, would “re-train.” He’d work my territory with me, reminding me what confidence looks like and how to get past the obstacles I was facing. I went back to work after each retrain, refreshed and ready.  Ready to make Peter proud.

Nice story. So what? Corporate culture, employee retention, and training programs are all issues for the HR department.

“As marketers, our primary responsibility is to drive leads and increase revenues through market research, pricing, positioning, communications, advertising and public relations. So, why should we care about corporate culture?”

marketers should care about company culture

My hats off to you if you hold a marketing position and can define your role that clearly.

The thing about marketing—no matter your industry—it is an ever-changing, ever-adapting role.  Where we once were limited to just presenting our brands to the outside world, we now find ourselves responsible for protecting our brand, improving our brand, or in some cases, re-creating our brand.

Our brand is one of the most important aspects of our marketing strategy. It is the way we present our business model to our customers, laying out what our customers can expect from our company, products or services.  

A solid brand strategy will give us a competitive edge, setting us apart from our competitors.  

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A toxic company culture threatens brand strategy

Truthfully, a company culture doesn’t have to be toxic to threaten the brand strategy. Any company culture that doesn’t align with the company’s message will threaten the strategy.  

However, maintaining a healthy corporate culture will be easier to align, realign, or very often, drive the brand strategy.

Recently, my boiler stopped working. I knew it wasn’t because I was out of oil because I had just refilled the tank (admittedly after three months of putting if off). The technician informed me that because I had let the oil run down so long before refilling the tank, there was now residual sludge clogging my system, stopping my boiler from functioning properly.

An unhealthy company culture isn’t created intentionally, nor does it occur overnight.  

Don’t ignore the signs of a company culture heading in an unhealthy direction. Left to fester, it will become the sludge that slowly clogs the system and stops your marketing from functioning properly.  

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Marketers need to be thoughtful about creating and sustaining a healthy company culture to effectively market our business. Marketers have a unique skill set, and many of the strategies used to present a company’s brand to the outside world can translate to creating, sustaining and driving a positive company culture.

Five marketing concepts that can drive positive company culture

1. Target audience. Every marketer knows that the key to disseminating a clear message is to understand who is receiving this message. An important thing to remember is that your team is part of that audience.

Make sure whatever message you are portraying to the public matches that of what’s occurring within your walls.

2. Lifetime value. In marketing, we measure the customer lifetime value by predicting profits that can be attributed to a continued relationship with that customer.  

What if we were to measure the lifetime value of each team member?  

Try to predict the amount of profit that might be associated with a continued relationship with team member—or measure the potential loss. Gallup has done great research about the value of culture, and they have the data to prove that a strong corporate culture when employees want to stay translates to higher profits.  

Every point improvement in employee engagement, translates to an increase in profitability.  

3. Touch points. Each time our customers interact with our company, we consider that a touchpoint, whether it be a visit to our website, social media, or a phone call to our office. We track each of these touch points to ensure that a customer has a positive experience. Where there might be an issue, we hustle to address it immediately.

Do the same for your team.  

Focus on the team member’s journey and track each touchpoint along the way, so that when a team member is experiencing challenges within their given role, you can address it immediately.  

4. Encourage feedback. As marketers, we go out of our way to facilitate open communication between our company and our customers. We value this because it allows us to get into the customer’s head. The best way to find out what a customer wants or needs is to hear it from the customer.  

Guess what? The same holds true (or should hold true) with our team.

5. Word of mouth. We love when we have a happy customer that shares their experience with friends and colleagues. We love it so much, we’ve created referral marketing campaigns and incentives to encourage more of it.  

There’s no better advocate than our team!  

Make it easy for them advocate for your company, by providing them with an excellent (and consistent) experience and allowing them the voice to share it.  

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The moral of the story

Marketers are the keepers of reputation and are also called upon to rebuild it when things get screwed up. Incorporate company culture into your marketing plan by applying your marketing skills to an internal marketing strategy. Work hand-in-hand with HR and with leadership to develop and sustain a culture that aligns with your strategic goals and encourages employee engagement.  

As the great business magnate, Warren Buffett, said: “It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it. If you think about that, you’ll do things differently.”

Start making your company culture an issue for the entire team, a part of your brand strategy. Only when marketers start to care about the culture will it begin to be more than just an HR issue, but a way of business life.

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How to Failproof Your Startup

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Every entrepreneur and business owner I run into has a yearning to do something deep with their business. Whether it’s forming strategic partnerships, creating new divisions of their business, or rolling something new out, the desire is there to do more.

But the thing that holds them back is the immediate needs of their business. In other words, that stuff that they think deserves priority within the coming 24 to 48 hours. Those immediate things get in the way new customers, sales, business development, putting out fires.

There are consequences to prioritizing those immediate needs though, and it comes as a slow fade as we continue to give our energy to the things that aren’t in alignment with our business’s core vision.

Your mind simply cannot live in the now for the sake of survival. You have to think beyond the immediate or you may not have a business in a year.

Your business cannot be sustained on product or service deliverables alone

Many business owners strategize their growth around immediate profit centers. And on the surface level, that makes some sense. You want to make more money by capitalizing on what is already working in your business.

That is, namely, your products or services.

“But look— if you focus solely on getting more customers or clients, making more sales, that’s all you’re ever going to be doing. It’s going to you constantly trying to sustain your business on what you have now.”

Customers and clients will come and go, they cannot be relied upon as means to scale your business. The return on your investment in deliverables is not sustainable in the long term. They are not the singular foundation for growth in your business.

customers will come and go

You cannot deviate from your vision and the plan you have for your business just because you hit a tight spot or else you won’t have a sustainable ROI. Constantly set yourself up where you’re working on things that are going to grow your business.

That’s why you have to look beyond your deliverables and think long term. How can you create sustainable profit beyond the products or services you offer?

Creating multiple silos of profit

The key to overcoming this endless cycle of solely profiting from the immediate deliverables is to create other sources of profit. This means loosening your grip on hyper-focused optimization of sales and looking far ahead.

Yes, this consideration of the long term means putting your time and energy into profit that is not certain.

But unless you open your business up to profit opportunities that can only be attained by investing in the long term, the future of your business is not good.

Think of your business as a pie. Your product and service delivery is only a slice of the pie. That may come as difficult news if you are currently pouring all your time and energy into that one slice and the rest of the pie is going untouched.

think of your business as a pie

The first step in overcoming that narrow focus on the one slice of pie is to identify other silos or profit centers in your business.

Not sure where to start? Here’s a breakdown of the other slices in your profit pie:

  • Strategic partnerships
  • B2B commerce if you’re a B2C business, and B2C commerce if you’re a B2B business
  • People and things that can sell for you: brand advocates, your content, networks, etc.

Identifying each of these silos, or slices, and what they would look like in your business is key in beginning to dispel some of that uncertainty about the future of business.

Map out the process within each silo

After you’ve identified these silos as they apply to your business, it’s time to take a deeper look into each of these silos.

Keep in mind that the sales process for each of these silos will not be like the sales process for your products or services. Why? Because the ROI in these silos is achieved over a longer period of time. It’s a long term investment.

This takes patience, diligent planning, and an acceptance that the profit will not come immediately.

Take Gary Vaynerchuk for example. He didn’t just wake up and create Vayner Sports one day. He looked at the class of upcoming athletes in schools and made a conscious effort to develop relationships with them so that when they graduated he had a base to launch Vayner Sports. That took time and patience.

What makes companies huge are the things they do outside of their immediate delivery of their product or service. It’s that longevity, thinking years ahead, that makes them huge.

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So mapping out the objectives of each of these silos and understanding how many touch points it will take to accomplish those objectives is what it’s going to take to tactically approach those longer term investments.

Consider that it may take a lot longer to land a strategic partnership than a new customer, but that partnership could yield 10 to 50 times the ROI than that new customer.

Once you’ve mapped out the process, you have to prioritize accordingly. You only have so much energy and time to give.

So if you’re going to exert a lot of energy, wouldn’t you prefer to do it over a longer period of time for a greater ROI?

So stop spending 80 to 90% of your time in the silo of product and service delivery. The energy you’re putting into that short term silo is yielding far less ROI in the long term.

On top of your silos, create value-based investments

After you’ve identified your other silos and mapped out the processes for each, it’s time to add the next layer: value-based investments.

What are value-based investments? This is stuff you can’t see as ROI, but it could be the biggest move you ever make as a business, such as investing above and beyond in a relationship or education in your own skills.

what are value based investments?

Value-based investments may not have ROI today, but they could in the future.

It’s the same concept as going into higher education. If people are willing to go $100k into debt to get higher education all for the sake of getting an unguaranteed higher quality job, why should we think any different as business owners?

A great example of a value-based investment I made is in The Modern Marketer itself. I didn’t know that this publication would be as big as it is now, but I decided to invest my energy into it anyway. If you added up all the money and every hour I put into it, it would be at least $50k.

Now The Modern Marketer is everything for us. It’s the only thing that separates us as an agency from anyone else in our industry.

So on top of creating those silos, always have three to five things that you’re putting time and energy into as a value-based investment. Keep that higher perspective in mind, or else you’ll always be relying on income from cash flow.

Have some uncertainty? Think about the “Best Case Scenario”

Every company that’s had a massive payout has made value-based investments. For these greater things to work out, you have to plan for them to work. You have to slowly chisel away at value-based investments.

The way we measure the ROI of value-based investments is a benchmark technique called best case scenario.

For example, if you were going to not listen to anything I’m saying here (which is fine), what’s the best thing that could happen? You get 10 more clients? You make 30 more sales? That’s your benchmark.

But if you take a day to plan ahead and consider the best case scenarios for the payoff of your value-based investments, you’ll realize you need that and the other silos. You can’t rely on product or service delivery and expect growth over the next 12 to 24 months.

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If I told you that you wouldn’t make money for the next year and a half, but on December 15, 2018 you would make $1 million, wouldn’t you drop everything to make the investments necessary for that to happen?

You would certainly re-prioritize.

Of course, you’ll never actually reach that best case scenario. You’ll never have the best of everything. But if you take the time to carefully consider these scenarios, you realize that longer term investments have a far better ROI than the short term ones.

I went through this process of realizing three to six months of my energy had been dedicated to things that were not for the sake of bigger growth for the company. ROI is not about volume of product or service sales, it’s about silos and value-based investments.

We have to be more practical with the prioritization of our energy.

Longevity of your business must always come before immediate needs

You have to prioritize longevity over your immediate needs. It’s not a recommendation, it’s a requirement.

Statistically, a year from now, more than half of you will not have your business.

Think about that.

The only way we can prevent ourselves from becoming that statistic is by strategically planning into the future.

True ROI in business comes from those other silos, by seeing the whole pie and not just the product and service delivery piece. That and your value-based investments are the keys to not only sustaining your business over time, but growing your business.

Identify those silos, map out their processes, and create some value-based investments. If you prioritize your business in the long term, the immediate needs will be taken care of as a result.

Don’t let your business fade away because you were too focused on the short term. Prioritize longevity.

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Need to Network? You Can Get a Meeting with Anyone, and Here’s How

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It’s no question that the connections you make in business are important for growth. We need other people to help us expand. It’s also no question that there are certain people out there who we know would be particularly great connections to have for growing our business.

But some people are just way more difficult to connect with than others. Especially if they’re big name influencers.

So how do you do it? How do you land a meeting with even the most difficult people to connect with?

Here is some advice for getting a meeting with anyone…

Become Relevant

The first thing you have to do in order to be able to connect with someone is to become so relevant that you attract them. Relevancy is like a magnet. If you’re relevant enough, you’re on a person’s radar.

This means figuring out what makes this person tick.

What’s influencing them?

What are they posting about?

What publications are they posting from, posting consistently?

What interests them?

What gets their attention?

Find this person’s channels and get inside their head. Because if you can figure out how their mind works, if you can figure out what’s important to them, then you can become more relevant to them.

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When you’ve figured out what exactly is relevant to the person you’re pursuing a meeting with, then you start creating content around the topics, people, organizations, and brands that are relevant.

This also means distributing that content on relevant and appropriate platforms. If the person you’re trying to meet with is an active blogger with a strong presence on Facebook, it’s not going to make a lot of sense to create content for YouTube and expect it to show up on that person’s radar.

Create relevant content, but also distribute it in the context most relevant to the person whose attention you seek.

Okay, now let’s so you’ve created relevant content and you’ve shared it on relevant platforms, but it’s not getting much attention. Part of becoming relevant means developing the right audience.

It won’t happen overnight. Ironically, becoming relevant takes time. Creating relevant content is meaningless if you don’t have an audience. You might as well be shouting into a void.

If you’re walking down a street and see two street performers— one without a crowd and one with a large crowd —which one is going to draw your interest?

It’s natural for humans to be drawn to where attention already exists. Just like in real life, the more engagement you get, the more relevant you become in the digital world.

This can take time. Be patient and keep creating and distributing relevant content. Over time, your voice will come up on the right people’s radars.

What’s in It for Them?

Why do people go on shows or accept interviews? Why do people agree to collaborate? It’s not because they have a lot of followers, it’s because they have a purpose behind it.

Sure, I imagine there’s times when people do shows just because they want to offer some advice or just collaborate with someone in their community or circle of influence, but most of the time that’s not going to be the case.

Look, for the most part, everybody and their mothers has some sort of agenda. It’s just life. When you want to collaborate with someone, they’re going to be most interested in what you can do for them.

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It’s not a one way street. Asking someone to dedicate some time, energy, or money to you is not going to happen for nothing. In the ideal scenario, collaborating yields some sort of value for both parties.

So that means you need to consider the needs and desires of the person you want to meet with. What value can you offer them? What benefit can they get from collaborating with you?

How can you make this meeting about an exchange of value, rather than just getting the value you want?

Create a situation where you can offer relevant value to that person. Whether it’s a guest you want to have on your show, a client you want to meet with, a customer you want to sell to, or a CEO you want to meet and interview, consider how meeting with you can be of value to them.

Never Give Up

People are busy. You can’t expect to contact someone you really want to meet with once or twice and expect them to give you an immediate and affirmative response.

I watched one of my favorite podcasters Lewis Howes interview Rainn Wilson, Dwight from The Office, and towards the end of the show, Lewis mentions how one of his goals is to be able to interview anybody.

It may seem like this guy could land anyone on his show, but at the end of the day, some of the meetings with the biggest people he’s interviewed took more than 6 months to land.

Sometimes he had to go back and develop more of his audience, or get more processes involved. Sometimes he had to follow up 15 times, just in order to get that meeting.

It takes time and effort to connect with people. Even if you’re a professional at connecting with people. So don’t get discouraged or offended, everybody is busy.

Some people get so offended when they can’t have the meeting they want to have right away, even with me. Sometimes I’ll get messages from die hard fans of The Modern Marketer saying they want to meet with me, and I’ll send a message back saying I can’t meet this week or I’m a little too busy.

Then maybe some time will pass and we don’t talk for a little while and they stop commenting on and liking our stuff. Sometimes I’ll even get a message back saying I never answered their question, and they take offense.

You have to realize that people you’re trying to reach out to are trying to run businesses, and they have lives— activities, endeavors, and obligations they have to fulfill. So it’s going to take some follow up, sometimes a lot of follow up, before you can connect with someone.

Be consistent and maintain a kind tone in your voice, even if it’s through text-based messages. That consistency and tone are what will increase your chances of landing that meeting.

Be patient. Keep reaching out. Don’t give up.

Make them Feel Important

Again, people are busy. It’s going to take time and effort to convince someone that you’re worth taking some time out of their busy schedules to talk to you. If you get offended or upset with them, that’s not going to help your cause. It’s going to hurt it.

Not everybody is going to remember what you did or what you said, but everybody will remember how you made them feel.

I have landed a lot of meetings and business because of the way I made somebody feel. It’s natural and human for people to be drawn to other people who make them feel good.

If you can make that person feel important and honor their time, you are far more likely to get their attention.

Keep a kind and welcoming tone. These are humans you’re trying to meet with, and like anybody else, they just want to be treated with kindness.

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If you make that person feel bad for not responding to you the way you’d like, they’re going to have no motivation to meet with you. Think about how you would want to be approached for a meeting and start from there.

Attempt to make human connections. This will make a world of a difference in influencing the meetings you get.

Conclusion

There’s no perfect formula to getting meetings with anybody. We all lead busy lives and the way the communication unfolds won’t be the same for every person. But we are all human, and deep down we all want the same things.

We want to be respected, treated kindly, and have our time honored. We all want to be made to feel good. We’re busy and not every interaction is worth our time or energy, so we have to choose. Keeping in mind what’s relevant to the person you want to meet with, and what value you can offer to them is key in landing these meetings. Consider all these points when approaching someone to meet, and you will be all the more likely to meet with them.

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